Saturday, March 16, 2013

Hymen Talk

Hymenal checks seem to have become a standard operating procedure for parents who find it hard to accept and believe that their teenage daughter already had sex with a boyfriend.  Why? Because the hymen has been equated to virginity since time immemorial.  But, just because the police say it, tv show dialogues express it and even some doctors also acknowledge this, it really does not mean that is true.

Different Shapes of the Hymen (image c/o soc.ucsb.edu)

                The hymen is a very pliable membrane in spite of being very thin.  It does not cover the entrance to one’s vagina, because if it does, the condition is called having an “Imperforate Hymen” and menstruation will not happen because blood from the uterus cannot go out which could lead to infection and other complications.  Instead, it borders the vaginal orifice and its shape, color and thickness may vary depending on the age of the person.  It is elastic and it can regenerate or heal to the point of looking very normal again, especially in females who are in their pre-teen and teen years.  It is even possible that those who have been pregnant and given birth will have a normal hymen.  Thus, it is also possible that a teenager who has had sex will not manifest any signs, especially if the act was deliberate and the partner was very careful not to hurt or injure the female. 

                Which brings me to another point, virginity does not rest on the character of the hymen—being whole, unbroken, etc.  It is something within the person, meaning it is an emotional and a psychological concept that cannot be taken away by just having engaged in sexual act.  It is something that is willfully given to another person out of love, and it cannot be forcefully removed from a person, especially in cases of sexual abuse and rape. 

                “Nabasag ang hymen”, “Na-devirginize”, “Positive Hymen” – these phrases along with performing hymenal checks in every teen that engages in sex connote that the hymen somehow determines one’s fate and one’s reputation rest solely on such a very unreliable membrane.  Instead of forcing teen girls to undergo such a traumatic procedure, parents should learn to communicate with their daughters better.  They should also teach their children about what it means to be a teenager, the bodily changes that their children should expect to happen and of course, sex.  Knowledge and communication are protection against early teen sex, teen pregnancy, sexual abuse and sexually transmitted illnesses.  Lastly, the hymen is not the seat of virginity as it truly lies in one’s heart and mind.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

THE MODERN LEARNING WHEEL: A Theoretical Model of Continuous and Motivated Learning



                A lot of learning theories have been presented over the years with old ones being modified and changes to come up with new ones. For me, the cognitive, behavioral and social schools of thought are the most appealing and closely resembles how learning occurs in reality.  In an attempt to make a model that hopefully combines these three, I was able to construct a modern learning wheel.


               
                This theory has four basic assumptions.  First, human beings are naturally and innately curious.  They are driven by a need to ask questions and to find the answers to these questions.  This drive contributes to the internal motivation that moves a person to learn.  Second, human beings are motivated to take an active role in their learning. When a problem or a question is presented, being driven by curiosity, a person will actively seek the solution or the answer, regardless of the appropriateness of the answer, and the readiness of the person for it based on age and culture; thus, one may learn about any concept or idea or skill at any point in time.  Third, practice makes perfect.  The more a person encounters the answer to a problem or question, the more he will learn about this, because repeated exposure, retrieval and encoding allows the mind to access this faster.  If this information is not accessed or retrieved repeatedly, it gets buried underneath all other information until it gets retrieved again, but retrieval is more difficult but not impossible.   Lastly, finding the answer is reinforcement.  Arriving at the answer, whether it be positive or negative in nature, answers the inner drive, and this is reinforcing for a person; thus, moving the person to pursue further learning. 

                Learning is a cycle or a process of steps that one may be unaware of but goes through them through life.  There are 8 crucial elements in this model- Question or Problem, Motivation, the Source, Memory, Encoding or Storage, Retrieval, Application and Transfer of Knowledge.  Learning begins when a question or problem is presented.  This could be from an external source, those presented to a person by another person or by situations, or an internal one, one that is created by the mind or one that is experienced through the sensations of the body. Being a curious entity, humans are primarily internally motivated to seek answers to the problem or question; however, there could also be external motivating factors that could be synergistic with the internal drive; thus, pushing the person more to learn.  A Source is then found for the answer.  The Source could be anything from a teacher, a book, a video, a recording, an experience or even the mind, as long as it provides a clear answer or solution to the question or problem at hand.  Once the answer has been deemed correct or acceptable, it is encoded and stored in memory.  Storage allows for retrieval of information when the answer is again needed; however, there are certain old information that get buried underneath new ones, especially when they have not been accessed for a long time.  The mind, being a muscle, needs constant exercising through encoding or storage and retrieval, because the area allotted to this information might get atrophied just like a real muscle of the body when one fails to use it.  But, there is truly no loss of information or knowledge in the mind.  Every data leaves a mark in the mind, retrieval is very difficult and may take a long time and a lot of stimulating but not impossible.  After knowing the answer or solution, it is time to apply or use the information gathered and then, there comes a time when knowledge is fully transferred to another person.  Application can range from the use of the knowledge to build or invent a new machine to daily performance of a new skill to even just sharing the learned information with another person.  The cycle closes but does not end when the knowledge has been fully mastered by another individual; thus, part of the last step of the process is teaching another person intentionally or unintentionally.  For example, a mother would like to prepare a new dish, so she seeks out the answer by watching a cooking show where she finds an interesting recipe, which she stores in her memory and retrieves it for application or practice.  As she prepares this dish over and over again, one of her daughters observes her and encodes each step in her own memory bank.  She could even offer to help her mother to practice what she has learned.  When the daughter has her own family, she begins also to cook the same dish, which signifies the completion of one cycle; however, a new problem or question may arise from this transferred knowledge.  The daughter might be curious as how she could modify the dish to make it more appealing to her own family, which then signifies the beginning of a new cycle that has overlapped with the initial one.  This illustrates that learning is truly never-ending and it is a continuous process that can overlap or intersect with other cycles. It is also not stagnant and the cycle continues to progress or move even if the learner might not be totally aware that he or she is learning already. 

                The Modern Learning Wheel is a rough model to represent the very broad concept of learning; however, it gives us a glimpse of its complexity through very simple concepts and assumptions.  It is just one of the products or applications of my learning experiences, and sharing them to you is a part of the cycle and when it finally gets transferred, who knows, it might be modified into something totally different or even debunked?  Still, no matter how knowledge evolves, the learning process remains constant and continuous. 
               


Sunday, January 6, 2013

Nail Polish Mini-Haul and Review: Caress, Cutex and La Belle

                Since I have really short nails, I don’t usually wear nail polish but the really cute and attractive colors do call out to me at times.  Fortunately, I attended a party that gave me an excuse to wear some nail colors even for just a while.  Here are some of the nail polish that I bought from Watson’s, so they are available locally and very cheap. 
            



                I bought Caress Neon Red, La Belle Sapphire and Cutex In a Trance.

                I will be reviewing these one by one based on their color, pay-off, price and ease of removal. Please forgive me for the poor quality of the pictures, as I only used my phone for this, and for my uber short fingernails.

1.       Caress Neon Red




Even though it says Neon Red, it actually looks like a pinkish red to me.  The ingredients actually say that it has pink dye in it. It has a matte finish to it, but I think, it looks better if you place a top coat.  You get a lot product with just one coat.  I actually thought that this might need a lot of swipes to achieve the right color since it was not as viscous as other nail polishes are in the local market.  I like how loud the color is and how eye- catching it is.  It’s a fun and confident color to wear for summer or actually for any day that you feel like being flirty and playful.  The first thing that I do not like about this nail polish is that it takes a long time to dry and the second thing is that it’s so hard to remove!  Well, my nail polish remover might have been contributory to this but it really got to a point that I just tried to remove it by scratching my nails.  But for the price of just P23.75, I guess that’s what you get.  Just remember to wear a base coat to prevent staining of the nails. 

2.       La Belle Sapphire



Sapphire gives out a deep shiny blue color with very minute silvery flecks.  It actually looks pretty and I’m not just saying that because my favorite color is blue.  It can be worn for formal events, dates, parties and during the holidays.  It’s also easy to remove, and among the three here, it’s the easiest.  I like this color a lot, but it’s unfortunate that in order to achieve the color you see here, you will need 3-4 swipes.  It only costs P31 for 10 ml, so I guess this is the down side of a cheap but beautiful product like this.  I also don’t like the fact that it feels heavy on my nails and dries too fast, but the color is still pretty so I will still use it. 

3.       Cutex In a Trance



From how the light is hitting my nail on this angle, it seems like a lot of product with 2 sweeps.
 
But here, it looks more sheer

And here, it almost seems like there's no product on my nail

This one doesn't look good at all! This is how it looks with 3-4 coats of the product.

As the name says, In a Trance can put you in a trance trying to figure out if there is really nail polish applied to your nails or none.  In the bottle, it looks like this pastel pink color with a golden sheen, but when you apply it, at least on my nails, it gives this, peachy golden color.  It is actually very sheer as it has a very thin consistency even after 2 swipes on the nails, but it looks actually pretty and feminine as it is.  It does not look as good though once you pile on more color. It is a good everyday nail color that can complement any skin tone.  It can also be easily removed without having to scratch or use a lot of the nail polish removal.  It costs more than the usual products, since it is imported from the USA.   However, I think that for P109.75 for 7 ml, you will still get quality for your money, and it is still relatively cheap compared to the more well-known brands like Orly, China Glaze and Sally Hansen. 






I hope this review helps, and that you’ll find the best color to wear on your nails for whatever whim you’re feeling or whatever event you’re attending. 

‘Til next time!=)



Thursday, January 3, 2013

Crispy Chocolate and Peppermint Home-made Ice Cream

Peppermint and chocolate is a classic combination that we traditionally see during Christmas, usually served in beverages or in desserts. I tried to adapt this in a home-made ice cream recipe that I came across a few months back using peppermint candies and chocolate-coated wafer bars. It is a simple Holiday treat that could give a sweet end to a filling Christmas Eve/ Noche Buena meal.






Ingredients:

2 250 ml Nestle All-purpose Cream (boxed ones), chilled overnight
1/2 cup to 3/4 cup powdered sugar (this will depend on your taste; just remember that the more sugar you add, the harder the ice creambase will be as this helps in the crystalization/ ice formation in the ice cream)
10 peppermint candies (red and white circular ones), crushed
2 4-pieces pack of Kitkat chocolate, roughly crushed or cut into smaller pieces
green food color (optional)
pinch of salt (acts as a preservative)


1. In a big bowl, pour in the chilled cream and carefully break it up a bit with a wire whisk.
2. Add the salt and powdered sugar, then gently whisk together until they are well blended and the mixture becomes shiny, making sure that it remains aerated. You can also add the food color at this point, adding as much to reach your desired green color.
3. Fold in the peppermint candies and the chocolate.
4. Freeze for about 3-4 hours.
5. Thaw for about 10 minutes before serving.


I hope you enjoy this dessert as much as we did!=)


*picture c/o Google search and trialx.com.. I was not able to take a picture of this when I prepared it last Christmas






First Post!




I have been reading and watching several blogs lately on just about anything and everything, as my interests are randomly varied.  There are just a lot of interesting things in the world that one could say something about, from the most trivial and seemingly plain objects to the most controversial and intruiging issues; hence, I decided to hop in the blogging bandwagon as a little New Year's project for myself.  I am pretty new at this, so pardon the inexperienced writing, but I do hope that you'll enjoy reading my posts as much as I enjoyed preparing them.  

Frivolous or not, I hope that at least one would tickle your curiosity amidst the sundries you will find here. 

'Til next time!=)